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Too much communications ?!?! Email and Text Overload!

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Incessant email checking is probably one of the greatest hurdles to productivity. How many people do you see that are always on their crackberries trying to look important? In the middle of a conversation with you, you will see them constantly fidgeting and eventually pull out the blackberry or iphone and check it over and over again. As Muslims we should give the person we are speaking to our undivided attention. The Messenger of Allah (SAW) would make his guest feel like the only person in the world in conversation. I used to be one of those who felt the need to check email over 30 times per day. I then realized how much time I was actually loosing. Cutting down drastically on email can actually add a couple of hours to your daily productivity. The hours saved can be used to get more work done or simply increase knowledge of deen. Also keep in mind that information overload adds to your stress and can make you prone to sickness and other diseases. Here is what I do to stop checking email so much.

1. My blackberry email is turned off most of the day. Before doing this looking at my email would be the first thing I’d do when waking up in the morning. This was obsession.
2. I check email only three times per day. Once when I sit down to work, again after lunch then again right before finishing up for the day. I do this for work and personal email.
3. I get people in the habit of calling me if it is something that is really important. The problem with emailing and texting is the human component is lost. Can you imagine the Messenger of Allah (SAW) sending a text to his wife Ayesha (RA) to get his wudu water ready?
4. When I am expecting something from a client I will turn my blackberry on. However I am not checking it all while it is on.
5. When replying to email, I do so in five sentences or less in most cases. In cases of texts I am even shorter. If it is a client that I am helping then I may go over this. However in most cases I will just pick up the phone or organize a video conference.

Conquering the need to incessantly check email is freedom in deed. It is something about it that makes me feel uncluttered and less stressed. I know everything we see in media tells us that we need to be in the loop or informed at all times. I just realized that I was putting my family at risk by my blackberry/iphone behaviors. So hang up the phone/email/text and start treating people like human beings. Stop bringing your blackberry to bed with you, to the dinner table etc.

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Why I Exercise 7 Days a Week

The Prophet (peace be on him) once wrestled with a man called Rukanah who was well-known for his strength, throwing him down more than once. (Reported by Abu Daoud.) In another report of this incident, the Prophet (peace be on him) started wrestling with him. As the fight was hard, Rukanah said, “A sheep for a sheep.” The Prophet (peace be on him) then threw him. The man said, “The same again.” The Prophet (peace be on him) threw him again, and the man said, “The same again.” The Prophet (peace be on him) threw him a third time. The man then said, “What shall I tell my wife? One sheep was eaten by the wolf, one ran away, but what about the third” Then the Prophet (peace be on him) said, “We are not going to defeat you and take something from you as well. Take your sheep!”

I enjoy working out and eating right with a passion. I am addicted to that healthy clean feeling that comes with the discipline of self restraint and the sacrifice of putting my body through sweat and struggle on a daily basis. Jack Lalane (96 year old health guru) said; “Nutrition is King and Exercise is Queen, put them both together and you have a Kingdom.” If you see Jack Lalane today, he does not walk bent over or very slow like the typical 96 year old. In fact to hear him talk, you wouldn’t think he was this old. His mind still seems sharp and he walks with great speed.

Many Muslims for whatever reasons become very unbalanced. Surprisingly many think that working out and staying super fit is body worship. My response to this mindset is; “A strong believer is better than a weak believer.” I thank Allah that I can jump up out of my bed everyday with lots of energy and vigor. I don’t need the coffee and teas to get started.

The reason I work out daily is that I like to set a context for myself. Most people have in their mind that the “experts” say you should workout daily because your body should rest to repair muscle. So with this, most will take and run with it. I set the context that I must exercise daily even if it is for just 20 minutes. I think this is better than saying, “I will work out for four days per week, three on four off or whatever.” So for me, I know that if say that I will work out every day, I am setting the context that exercise is a way of life for me and that I don’t feel like my day is complete until I accomplish my workout. I run half marathons quite often. When I am not training for a marathon, I run an average of 6 miles four days per week. The other days I am lifting weights or doing calisthenics. I know with my workout routine I can cheat every now and then on my diet and still not feel or see it in my physique. I believe another important part of my diet and exercise routing is fasting on Mondays and Thursdays. This has really helped me not to focus on food so much. I even lift weights or run on days that I am fasting. Last week I was doing some business travel, so my schedule was disrupted a bit. For the four days I was traveling, I took advantage of the hotel work out facilities at the Hyatt. On one of those days, I had to do pushups for 15 or 20 minutes. I had spent most of the day on a plane. If I had set the context that I will work out for four or five days per week only, I would have done what most would do and that is to skip working out altogether.

It is easier to find excuses that it is to stick with it. I know for me, the benefit is greater if I go ahead and sacrifice and push through the workout. I am not saying this routine/regimen is for everyone. It does take considerable discipline to manage. But if you can manage, your physique, confidence, and overall output levels will be through the roof. People will wonder how you are able to accomplish so much within a 24hour period. During the time of the Prophet (SAW), the Sahabah (men and women) had what I would call “applied” fitness. Everything they did throughout the day was a workout. They didn’t own TV’s, waterbeds, vehicles and all the other comforts that make us lazy. I workout daily and I don’t loose muscle or feel fatigued all the time. On days that I have a long run, my legs may thumps for another day or so. But it is never anything that makes me feel like I need to rest and do nothing.

If you want a program that gives great results, I think the P90 X program is an excellent program for in home workouts. The program does give results if you stick with it. I have never used it myself, but I know people who have and it has worked wonders with in a very short period of time. From what I have seen from the infomercials, there is a heavy focus on calisthenics. The most important thing is that you have to get your body moving now and everyday. Going for a brisk walk or jog is better than sitting at home doing nothing. Alhamdulillah, I am fortunate enough to be able to exercise in the middle of the day during the lunch hour. If this doesn’t work for you, then workout right after fajr for 30 minutes. Insha Allah there will be future posts about what the Prophet, the scholars and experts say about living a healthy and fit life. At the end of the day, by being more fit, you will have more strength to worship Allah without feeling lazy. We should thank Allah for the good health he has blessed us with. Thanking is not just done by the tongue. We also have to show our gratitude by using this great favour that Allah has bestowed upon us the way Allah wants us to use it. So in the meantime make the resolution to be a healthy Muslim!

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